Iranian boys and girls
The reason why I am going to write about this is because very interesting incident that happened yesterday..
there is a place on the way of my house that there are bunch of guys working and when leave the bus I have to pass that place...now two weeks ago a black guy was working there and when I looked at the place yelled and said smile for me;)..now for the people who know me I am one smiling girl most of the time:)even on the street people come to me and thank me for smiling at them!!anyways I smilled at him and walked home..next days I would see him and just smiled at him and he smiled back at me...now yesterday he came to me while I was passing and said can I talk to you for a sec..we interoduced ourselveses..he was the sweetest guy I have ever seen..he gave me simple compliments that I think I blushed!!but the fact is that he was so pure..so boyish like..that made me compare him with the Iranian boys I see around myself..anyways he tried to to ask me out but I told him with the nicest way that he will find a great girl like himself...anyways now to my analysis on Iranian community;)..well it has alot of aspects this is a small one I am touching on if you will:)
well in Canada Iranian boys and girls have a great issue of dating and moving with western rate in the relationship world than Iran I guess..I am not sure how it is done in Iran right now but this is my observation about Canada and how Iranian youth behave..
Let start with boys...well no one really knows what the hell they want!!I don't think even they know what they want..I would really appreciate if a guy actually tell me what goes on in the head of theirs..some times they act like million years ago and at the same time the want to act modern..as my Arabic friend says..they want the cake and they want to eat it as well!!!I know a number of persian boys that have chinese or oriental girl friends..now it has been a great mistry for alot of people why is that the case;)..well one thing that comes to mind is that oriental girls due to their background are very givin people..meaning that they will do whatever they are asked to do without complaning or nagging..
now Iranian girls they do nag alot I think compare to other cultures..but at the same time I think they want their freedom too..come on its 21 century..you can't order someone around..anyways I have seen Iranian girls who have Italian boyfriends or fiance..now why is that...the reason is because Italian men are not scared to show their emotions..I guess that's what I have notices..although I think they must be very similar in culture with us..consrvative and very family oriented..
but anyways I just wrote all this because it can be an interesting study for a socialogist to look at the perspective and the way Iranian youth see themselves in a global world..
Saturday, May 15, 2004
Posted by Junior_engineer & Pishi at 7:44 AM
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